Literature Review

Healing hearts: How palliative care staff reunited a father with his daughters after nearly 40 years apart The Daily Scan - Cancer; by Sondi Bruner; 11/25/24 Leah Duval and Tanya Ellis don’t have many childhood memories of their father. They recall fragments, like his bright smile and building snowmen in the backyard. And then one day, when they were three and five years old, Glenn Ellis disappeared completely. ​As the girls grew up, they learned their father had schizophrenia, which they guessed played a large role in his disappearance. ... The family searched for years in the 1980s and never found him. The sisters had no choice but to move forward with their lives, though they never gave up hope that their father was still out there. ... Then, on May 14th 2024, nearly 40 years after their father vanished from their hometown in Ontario, Tanya received an unexpected phone call from across the country. It was from Siobhan Gallagher, a social worker at May’s Place Hospice in Vancouver, BC. She had a patient named Glenn Ellis, and he was looking for his daughters. [Click on the title's link to read this story.] ... “People can hold onto grudges for their entire life and they don’t allow healing to happen,” says Tanya. “Have an open heart and an open mind. Just let things go, because we’re just all humans trying to do the best we can in this world.”

Liberty Hospice provides Thanksgiving for 7 families Lake Gaston Gazette-Observer, Gaston, NC; by Mark Mathews; 11/27/24 Liberty Hospice volunteers recently traveled to the Pleasant Hill Christian Church kitchen in Gasburg to prepare Thanksgiving meals for seven families. “The families were selected as those who would benefit the most by our wonderful Liberty Hospice Health Care team,” Liberty Hospice Regional Volunteer Coordinator Esther Harris said. “As it turned out, two of the families preferred to have us bring all the fixings to them and they were going to the cooking themselves for Thanksgiving.” ...  Harris approached DrugCo Discount Pharmacy Chief Financial Officer Neal White about helping her group with the Thanksgiving meals. She received a better-than-expected response. “I was looking for help to buy some turkey and maybe some ham,” Harris said. “Mr. White asked me how much I thought it would cost to do the entire meal for each of the seven families. I gave him a number and they donated the entire amount. So we thank DrugCo who is just a wonderful community partner.”

60 harsh life realities 20-somethings don’t realize yet, according to people in their 40s boredpanda; by Viktorija Ošikaité; 11/25/24 You tend to take life for granted in your 20s, and why wouldn’t you? ... You feel invincible and perpetually ready to conquer anything. But as you grow older, you will feel Father Time’s harsh reality checks. ... These 40-somethings would know, and they are sharing their nuggets of wisdom with 20-year-olds in this Reddit thread. ...Editor's note: While this is far more pop culture than the professional information we provide, take a break and enjoy these fun (and often wise) guides. Whatever your age, what are your favorites? What would you add? Delete? Share with a 20-something in your life?

South Jersey organization helps families caring for ailing loved ones by delivering Thanksgiving meals Fox 29 Philadelphia; by Marcus Espinoza; 11/23/24 Haddonfield, N.J. - The holiday season and stress go hand-in-hand for many, but for some, like the Esposito family, holidays like Thanksgiving can be especially challenging. Thankfully, organizations like Samaritan step up with efforts like a food drive in South Jersey. "Samaritan for years has been delivering meals to hospice, palliative and bereaved families all around our five-county area," explained Volunteer Coordinator Lisa DiCerto. DiCerto is a long-time Volunteer Coordinator and says give back days really highlight their mission as an organization to provide not just a hot meal during Thanksgiving, but a chance for families to worry about one less thing. ... It’s a large operation full of volunteers committed to helping their neighbors. "We are delivering to about 140 different locations today," DiCerto said. Editor's note: Giving thanks year-round, Samaritan Hospice (and its other services) provides a beautiful, simple way to thank their staff: click here to view. "Fill out the form to send us a message. We welcome your thoughts about the care you and your loved one received. We’ll make sure to share it with the hospice team, palliative care professionals, or grief counselors who took care of you, your family member, or friend." 

A guiding light: hospice care social workers provide support for dealing with the idea of death Scot Scoop - Carlmont High School's Student News Site; by Rei Baxter; 11/20/24 Death is a natural part of life, yet it is also terrifying. Being young and dying is especially difficult to accept. Regina Tong, a hospice social worker, has to deal with difficult cases. "The hardest parts for me are the young patients, like the moms with children, or younger people who are just not ready to die, but they get this terminal illness, and their parents are grieving. Those are really hard for me,” Tong said. ... Before starting in hospice, Tong worked in nursing homes and palliative care patients, who are people that aren’t quite hospice level but have chronic illnesses. However, when her mom died, she realized that she needed to stretch her boundaries and learn more about something she was uncomfortable with: death. “That’s why I’m here. The more I work in hospice, the more I realize how important inner peace is. I see a lot of patients who are at the end of their lives, and they really struggle with the idea of death, even though it’s a natural process of everything that has a life. So people who resisted end up suffering so much towards the end,” Tong said. Tong’s work doesn’t just help her patients and their families; it helps her connect more with herself. ...Editor's note: Rei Baxter--this article's author--is a high school senior. This beautiful article gifts us with a prelude into Thanksgiving week, as we gather with intergenerational families and tune into what matters most.

‘Like Christmas to me’: Parade of classic cars celebrates hospice patient in Hudson WJW, Hudson, OH; by Rex Smith; 11/16/24 A parade of classic cars made its way through Hudson Saturday to pass by one particular house on Boston Mills Road. They were there for James Gay, a lover of classic cars who also collects miniature classics. He is receiving end-of-life care. “I think this is more like Christmas to me. Whoever can’t get out has to leave the cars here,” he said with a laugh. Gay had the chance to get a close-up look at some of the cars he remembers so well because, in his words, he was around when they were made. Surrounded by family and friends, it was an emotional but special moment. This was all possible because of the “Gift of a Day” program provided by Crossroads Hospice and Palliative Care. For the “Give of a Day,” the question is: if you had one day to live, what would that day look like? “It’s the greatest feeling in the world to make somebody smile, and thinking that may be their last time to enjoy this with their family,” said Rhonda Kissner, the coordinator of the program.

Facing the tomorrows: Finding comfort, care and courage in hospice Concord Monitor, Concord, NH; by Rachel Wachman; 11/16/24 Yvette Lascelle has a favorite saying: “It is what it is.” “Whatever happens, happens,” Lascelle said with a faint smile. “They try to prevent it, but you can’t always prevent it.” The 81-year-old has been fighting multiple myeloma, or plasma cell cancer, for over a year and a half. In the past month, however, her condition has rapidly declined. Not knowing how many days she has left, she takes each one as it comes and savors the small moments – sitting with her brothers in the morning or sipping on eggnog in the afternoon. Her room at the hospice house in Concord is rarely quiet. Nurses check on her frequently and help maintain her comfort. Her priest comes by to guide her in prayer. Family and friends fill the space. Her daughter, Karen, sometimes sets up a small makeshift office and works remotely from the red chair by the window. Her son, Dan, visits after work with his wife and son. Lascelle lays underneath her lilac quilt, watching the world unfold from her bed and cherishing this time with her loved ones while it lasts. “Every day I’m happy to wake up,” the grandmother of four said. “You face the tomorrows. That’s it. It’s better than what I expected.” ...

Navigating the aftermath of natural disasters Teleios Collaborative Network (TCN); by Lara McKinnis; 11/15/24 This morning I woke up to two bears outside, a little cub sitting on our front steps eating the pumpkin that my daughter recently carved, the mom nearby completely sprawled out lounging in the sun in a bed of freshly fallen yellow and orange oak leaves.  This is the “fall” that I look forward to every year in Asheville. I wanted to hold onto this feeling, all of us standing at our screened-in window talking to the bears as if they understood us, our dog enthusiastically joining in the conversation.  This feeling is alive and vibrant; however, so is the visceral awareness of the horrific despair that has engulfed my beloved community and so many communities in Western North Carolina. ...  Adjusting to a natural disaster is nuanced and layered.  [Click on the title's link to continue reading this hospice leader's reflections and professional guidance.]

Mom of 4 is placed in hospice care 2 weeks before son's wedding. On his big day, she's on the dance floor with a smile (exclusive) People; by Jordan Greene; 11/14/24 ... In October, before entering hospice care, Liv recalls how her mom was in the hospital, and all she could talk about was attending the wedding. With Olivia's health deteriorating, Liv says her brother Salvatore and his fiancée Kelsey had even considered holding the wedding ceremony in the hospital room if necessary. But that contingency plan quickly became unnecessary. On Nov. 2, their mom defied expectations and arrived at Basilica Hudson in Hudson, New York, alongside the other 105 guests to watch her son walk down the aisle — turning the hopes of her kids and everyone else in attendance into a reality. In fact, Liv says her mom exceeded even the best-case scenario the family had imagined. ...

Teen honored with Meritorious Civilian Award after rescuing grandparents in house fire [grandmother in hospice care] Chattanoogan.com, Chattanooga, TN; 11/12/24The Whitfield County Fire Department awarded the Meritorious Civilian Award for Bravery to 15-year-old José Fernando Espinoza on Monday in recognition of his exceptional courage during a house fire on Oct. 19. The award honors civilians who show extraordinary heroism in life-threatening situations, celebrating Fernando’s selfless actions that saved his grandparents. Shortly after midnight on Oct. 19, firefighters were dispatched to a fire on Ricky Drive, where flames had rapidly overtaken the home. Though most of the family managed to escape safely, Fernando’s grandparents remained trapped inside. His grandmother, bedridden and in hospice care, and his grandfather, who chose to stay with the grandmother, were unable to make it out on their own. In an extraordinary display of bravery, Fernando reentered the burning home through a window and, pushing through thick smoke and flames, managed to pull both grandparents to safety.

A doctor’s life-changing realization about empathy after becoming a patient [podcast] MedPage Today's KevinMD.com; podcast by KevinMD; 11/10/24 Join us for a conversation with Fazlur Rahman, a hematology-oncology physician and author of Our Connected Lives. In this episode, we explore how Fazlur’s journey from physician to patient transformed his understanding of empathy. He reflects on the importance of personal connection in medicine, the impact of a lack of empathy on both doctors and patients, and the need for medical education to include the humanities to foster compassionate care. This episode dives deep into the role empathy plays in improving patient outcomes and doctor-patient relationships. Fazlur Rahman is a hematology-oncology physician and author of Our Connected Lives. He discusses the KevinMD article, “From doctor to patient: a life-changing lesson in empathy.”

After Hurricane Helene, the VA in Western NC is making sure that no veteran is left behind  Southern Living; by Abigail Wilt; 11/11/24The agency has contacted 100% of the high-risk veterans they identified before the storm—some visits requiring mile-long hikes up unstable mountainous terrain. As Western North Carolina continues to pick up the pieces on a long road to recovery following the devastation of Hurricane Helene, teams from the local VA are going above and beyond to care for veterans. ... That service extended deep into the mountains. Prior to the storm, the VA identified over 2,600 vulnerable veterans at highest risk, including patients going through chemo treatments and those with spinal cord injuries, mobility issues, and home oxygen needs. When the floodwaters hit, the Emergency Department never closed. Immediately following Helene, the VA began addressing the oxygen needs of 1200 vulnerable veterans, Young shared, and a task force was mobilized to perform wellness checks. But as many roads were washed out and phone and internet service inconsistent, these wellness checks often took the form of compassion on foot. “We contacted 100% of the high-risk veterans, either by phone or in person at their homes,” Young said. “Some visits required mile-long hikes up unstable mountainous terrain to reach veterans, including those determined to stay in their homes."