Facing the tomorrows: Finding comfort, care and courage in hospice

Facing the tomorrows: Finding comfort, care and courage in hospice 
Concord Monitor, Concord, NH; by Rachel Wachman; 11/16/24 
Yvette Lascelle has a favorite saying: “It is what it is.” “Whatever happens, happens,” Lascelle said with a faint smile. “They try to prevent it, but you can’t always prevent it.” The 81-year-old has been fighting multiple myeloma, or plasma cell cancer, for over a year and a half. In the past month, however, her condition has rapidly declined. Not knowing how many days she has left, she takes each one as it comes and savors the small moments – sitting with her brothers in the morning or sipping on eggnog in the afternoon. Her room at the hospice house in Concord is rarely quiet. Nurses check on her frequently and help maintain her comfort. Her priest comes by to guide her in prayer. Family and friends fill the space. Her daughter, Karen, sometimes sets up a small makeshift office and works remotely from the red chair by the window. Her son, Dan, visits after work with his wife and son. Lascelle lays underneath her lilac quilt, watching the world unfold from her bed and cherishing this time with her loved ones while it lasts. “Every day I’m happy to wake up,” the grandmother of four said. “You face the tomorrows. That’s it. It’s better than what I expected.” ...