A guiding light: hospice care social workers provide support for dealing with the idea of death

A guiding light: hospice care social workers provide support for dealing with the idea of death 
Scot Scoop - Carlmont High School's Student News Site; by Rei Baxter; 11/20/24 
Death is a natural part of life, yet it is also terrifying. Being young and dying is especially difficult to accept. Regina Tong, a hospice social worker, has to deal with difficult cases. "The hardest parts for me are the young patients, like the moms with children, or younger people who are just not ready to die, but they get this terminal illness, and their parents are grieving. Those are really hard for me,” Tong said. ... Before starting in hospice, Tong worked in nursing homes and palliative care patients, who are people that aren’t quite hospice level but have chronic illnesses. However, when her mom died, she realized that she needed to stretch her boundaries and learn more about something she was uncomfortable with: death. “That’s why I’m here. The more I work in hospice, the more I realize how important inner peace is. I see a lot of patients who are at the end of their lives, and they really struggle with the idea of death, even though it’s a natural process of everything that has a life. So people who resisted end up suffering so much towards the end,” Tong said. Tong’s work doesn’t just help her patients and their families; it helps her connect more with herself. ... [Click on the title's link to continue reading.]
Editor's note: Rei Baxter--this article's author--is a high school senior. This beautiful article gifts us with a prelude into Thanksgiving week, as we gather with intergenerational families and tune into what matters most.