Ok, please help calm my anxiety. My mother has drastically improved in the last couple of days since going on hospice.

07/22/25 at 03:00 AM

Ok, please help calm my anxiety. My mother has drastically improved in the last couple of days since going on hospice. 
Aging Care; by Oedgar23; 7/17/25 
So in the hospital, my mother was in kidney failure. The last couple days after stopping vancomycin for about five days, her GFR had come up to 19. That’s the most recent Number and then they stopped drawing labs because we placed her on Hospice. We consulted with palliative care team. They wanted to do a feeding tube and we said no. They said she had advanced dementia. [Describes improvements since hospice.] ... What if she gets taken off hospice? ... What if she no longer qualifies for hospice, passes as normal cognitively, starts demanding to go home, does not qualify for long-term care, Medicaid, etc. ... But I am super unnerved because she looks a whole lot better than she has been looking. ...
Editor's Note: Yes, we all know that the person can get better with hospice care, because of holistic person-centered care, caregiver education and support, and many more factors. This can be confusing. The dying trajectory may have been interrupted or simply calmed with better symptom management and quality of life. This daughter is asking normal, crucial questions which the hospice team needs to be addressing with her. Examine your live discharge data, Policies and Procedures, communication practices with the patient and family about recertifications, Incident Reports from upset caregivers/families, and CAHPS Hospice scores.

 

 

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