End-of-life conversations: ‘When they open the door, you have to go in’

End-of-life conversations: ‘When they open the door, you have to go in’ 
Oncology Nursing News; video by Pattie Jakel, MN, RN, AOCN; 3/13/25
Oncology nurses have a unique relationship with patients that allows for difficult but essential end-of-life conversations, says expert Patricia Jakel, MN, RN, AOCN. Jakel, one of the editors in chief of Oncology Nursing News, emphasized that following up with patients and ascertaining what answers and support they need comes with the close bonds that oncology nurses form with patients with cancer. ... [Jakel describes:] We play a really important role. And sometimes patients ask us difficult questions, and we have to be prepared for it. I remember a lovely young patient I had, she had 2 little girls, and she was very sick. And things weren’t going well for her in the hospital, and she just—she looked up at me and she said, "Am I dying today?" And I thought, "She’s opening the door. She needs to have this conversation.” [Click here to hear this nurse describe the gentle interaction that unfolded.]
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