The number 1 mistake people make when trying to live a meaningful life with zero regrets, from a hospice doctor

01/27/25 at 02:00 AM

The number 1 mistake people make when trying to live a meaningful life with zero regrets, from a hospice doctor 
NBC 7 San Diego, CA; by Dr. Jordan Grumet; 1/24/25
... As a hospice doctor, I spend a lot of time with people facing the end of their lives. I've seen firsthand why this belief can lead to anxiety in up to 91% of people at some point in their lives. My response is always the same: You don't find purpose — you create it. It's not about stumbling upon a fully formed sense of purpose. Instead, it's about identifying the inklings in your life that light you up. I call them "purpose anchors" — and they're clues you can use to build a meaningful life with few or no regrets.  ...

  1. Turn regret into action ...
  2. Rediiscover the joys of childhood ...
  3. Focus on what lights you up ...
  4. Try the 'spaghetti method' ...

Identifying your purpose anchors is just the first step. The real work comes in building a life of purpose around them. ... But that's the beauty of creating purpose: It's a dynamic, ongoing process. ...
Editor's note: 
Dr. Jordan Grumet's new book, The Purpose Code, describes, "There are two different types of purpose. One will lead to anxiety and disillusionment; the other will lead to connection and lasting legacy."

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